Wu Tao:

吴涛：

 

Hello!

你好！

 

In life, there are some things that are really difficult to say clearly; maybe one of my actions makes you have a great view; but to tell the truth, I always have an idea that good friends must not have anything to do with money; not that I am too realistic, but that there are some things, as long as the money is linked, how deep feelings will eventually be unhappy and dispersed. 

人生之中，有一些事情，真的很难说清楚；也许我的一个行为，就让你产生了极大的看法；可是说实话，我一直有一个观念，好朋友之间，一定不能跟金钱有任何挂勾；不是我太现实，而是有一些事情，只要跟钱挂勾了以后，那么有多深的感情，最后都会不欢而散。

 

As a stable working person, I always think you should do a good job and make some achievements in your work. So when you borrow money from me to do business, I really disapprove of 10,000 people. I think people should not be too greedy in this life. Because you are an iron rice bowl person, if you do business, then your stable life will be broken. For my friend, I've been trying to persuade you, but I believe you must have misunderstood me.

作为一个有稳定工作的你，我一直觉得你应该要好好工作，在工作上有所建树；所以当你向我借钱做生意的时候，我真的一万个不赞成；我觉得人这一生，不应该太贪心；因为你是一个端铁饭碗的人，如果做了生意以后，那么你稳定的生活，就将会被打破；所以作为朋友，我一直在劝你，但是我相信你一定误解了我。

 

To tell you the truth, when you ask to borrow money, I can say that I am not without money; but I think that there will be problems between friends if they have something to do with money; if you ask me to borrow money because you are in urgent need, then I will never hesitate; but if you take money to do business, then it must be risky; if you make money, then there will be risks between brothers. It must be easy to say, but if you lose money, will our relationship survive when I ask for money?

说实话，当你开口借钱的时候，我可以说，我并不是没有钱；而是我觉得，朋友之间，如果跟钱扯上关系以后，那么就一定会出问题；你要是因为急用，找我借钱，那么我决不犹豫；可是你是把钱拿去做生意，那么这一定是有风险的；如果你赚钱了，那么兄弟之间，都一定好说；可是如果你亏了，当我找你要钱的时候，我们的关系还能保存吗？

 

Maybe you really don't understand me very well, that's what you've always been thinking; if a person borrows money from me to do business, I won't borrow it either; if a person has difficulty borrowing money from me, I can help him borrow it without me; because I think that doing business and encountering difficulties are two different purposes; so I didn't lend money to you, so I let you see so much. Law.

也许你真的不太理解我，在一直的观念就是如此；如果一个人找我借钱做生意，我有没有我都不会借；如果一个人有困难找我借钱，我没有我都可以帮他找人借；因为我认为做生意和遇到困难，这是两个不同的用途；所以我才没有借钱给你，才让你有了那么大的看法。

 

You said that since then, our brotherhood has ceased; in fact, I feel very sad to hear such words; do you mean that our brotherhood is measured by money? In my opinion, you don't treat me as a brother at all; if you treat me as a brother, then I believe you won't say that and ask me to borrow money; because the real brother must be pure and never have anything to do with money.

你说从此以后，我们兄弟之情就断了；其实听到这样的话，我觉得很伤心；难道说，我们兄弟之情，就是用金钱来衡量的吗？在我看来，你根本就不把我当兄弟；如果你把我当兄弟，那么我相信你就不会说这种话，也不会找我开口借钱；因为真正的兄弟，一定是纯洁的，跟金钱永远也不会扯上关系。

 

In this society, money is really not a good thing; if you don't have money, people will look down on you, and if you have money, they will borrow it from you; if you have it, what is it? But when I can't borrow it, then I will become an enemy between brothers and friends, so instead of becoming an enemy in the end, why don't I borrow it from the beginning?

在这个社会之中，钱这个东西，真的不是一个好东西；没钱那么别人看不起你，有钱别人又要找你借；有借有还，这还没有什么？可是当借了以后，还不起的时候，那么兄弟之间，朋友之间，就会成了为仇人；所以与其最后都会成为仇人，那么我何不从一开始，就不要借。

 

Today, you may not understand me; you may not want to make friends like me again, but I don't care; if for other reasons, people fall out, I may feel guilty; but if for borrowing money to do business, you and I fall out, I will never regret; since you do not understand, then I can not say too much, you slowly think clearly!